Dear MJ family,
I am a 26-year old female who is about to give birth to my very first child. Although my child is a blessing the circumstances in which she will be born are a nightmare for me.
I planned a child with a man who is now nowhere to be found after being together for three years and thinking I knew him.
Not to mention the wife and 6-month old child I found out about right before his disappearance. To make matters worse, it has been brought to my attention that I’m not the only female he’s done this to.
OMG! I thought I knew this guy well enough to want a family and a life with him, and then all this comes pouring down on me.
I have a good idea he’ll be back, but then what? What comes after all that, seeing as how a child is involved, not to mention the deep emotional attachment I’ve built over the three years I’d known him?
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Is there an explanation or excuse that can possibly be acceptable at this point?
I still love him but I don’t know what to do at this point if he comes back begging. I need help !!!!
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hmmmm this is so sad, ladies pls this a big lesson to you all. look wider before you leap. and to you my dear sister who is a victim of this wicked act, turn to God for solution and He will not only console you but He will heal your wounded heart. God bless you
My sister take heart,please he is not a good man for you,your own will surelly come be my friend my no 08165261431
Dont sleep with married men then! No sympathy at all!
My dear sister believe that God will surely you through even the time of your delivery.Be couragious.For financia help cal 08184604516
Hmmmmm,why are guyz so wicked to d extend of having affairs outside marriages?since he is married,i pray u to 4get about him and center your mind towards your child’s bright future,because i know someday some one greater than him will be longing 4 u.I pray that God should give u the strenght to conquer this moment.AMEN
My dear,all dat gillter is not gold.After 3 years,u have never known his house or even home,u couldn,t have proudly become pregnant 4 a stanger in friendship clothing.U have to deliver ur innocent baby and forge ahead with ur life.he is not ur man,can,t u see the mess for dating other people,s husband?as 4 the love u have 4 him,it,s just infatuations.wake up and stop dwelling in fantacy.prayers and word of God is the “KEYS”
Thanks to you Sandy. That is how they go about causing problem in their fellow women houses. Hers is a very big lesson. She is not even ashamed of her present situation and she is still hoping that he will come back to her
ur a coward 4 sleeping wit a married man .idiot.don,t u know is abomination in the eyes of GOD. UR A fool.pls go and ask 4 forgiveness.monkey.
u cant talk like tht . u ve no experience at all. ask God to forgive. judge nt, fr u nt to be judged. no one is above mistake pray fr u nt to make mistake in future
but u must be a fool fr saying dat didnt u av human feelings atall we re talking about emotion feelings i mean heart breaking u re a goat get out u idiot
A lesson for all ladies out their, neva open ur legs for anyman, no matter d relationship if he needs u dat badly then he should tak u to the altar,sex is wought waitin for till marriage it is the greatest gift u can giv to ur husband not the other way round please.a word is enough for the wise.
Are you Ok? She said she was ignorant OF the fact that the horrible man was married and you’re here posting wad’s not wise at all.I tink some folks are so crazy to a point that they cant read simple english. Note that These lady mentioned clearly that she was ignorant of the man being married, then why should someone Go on to call her names here, like her being an idiot, you mad folk did you not read clearly that she found out about the horrible man’s wife and kid after his disappearance.
To you ma dear sis. I wud encourage you to stop worrying rather stay more on the word of God and let it take a charge over you and your child. Believe In God Almighty for great solutions for your challenge. It’s so well.
Take haert my sister, allways pray in anything u do i strongly dat ond day God will surely bless u at apointed time
D woman dey vry stupid 2 still say dat she loves d guy suld he cum bak beggin her. Bebe mek i advice u dat is u wan hear. Be proud 2 b a single mother cus dat child ur carrying is ur ticket 2 c God. B proud n dnt boda ur head,if he cums bak begin u 4gv hm n acpet,bt if he dnt 4gt hm.
how come you agreed to be pregnant for him without marriage
My dear its quiet a story, as for these small brain, s/he goats, calling you names don’t mind them dear. Perfect ladies who has never smiled back at men on the street, go and hug electric poles. Those calling this lady names has no iota of empathy and lacks understanding.
She found out that he was married and he absconded, what is too much in this english to understand “ndi iti boribo”?
Do you understand the trauma she is going through? She is pregnant for love sake! Nne don’t mind them. Take care of your baby and yourself. No man is really worth hurting you, let him go for life. He will come back, forgive him even before he does and try and move on. It won’t be easy but it will be worth it. Wish you love girl, head up girl! Mma
MMA, NICE TALK
This is too bad, all i telling you today is never allow this hold you down but let it be your strength. every body deserved second chance in life so pleas take heart. God still loves you.
im so pissed at some comments dat if i hav d power to send lightling to strike dis illiterates down, i,ll just do dat now. is it dat u guys cant read and undastand somtin or ur actually readin it backwords abi una jus wan comment for commentin sake, occupyin dis colume wit irrelevant comments??? d poor lady needs an advice not insults so kip ur insults to urselves… dont com hear and say rubbish. she said she did not no, three years of datin dis useless guy way GOD ALMIGHTY go soon punish, one day, he wil look for his manhood, he wont c it, d tin go jus vanish, wat rubbish. Madam dont worry, u case is in front of GOD,He will c u thru, jus take it easy, IT IS WELL